Adultery, It Could Be Your Fault

If you have unrealistic expectations from your mate, this could lead him or her to commit adultery.

I remember a sermon a preacher made during a wedding ceremony. he said: "whatever you are not willing to do for your husband, there is someone out there ready and willing to do it".

If you want to be the center of attention in your relationship, then you may have some unrealistic and unknown expectations that can destroy your relationship and lead your partner down the path of adultery.

Let's look at some of them:

• Unrealistic expectation include expecting your partner to be your friend, companion, protector, playmate, mentor, and lover, and to assume the proper role automatically and graciously, according to your needs of the moment.
• You expect your partner to do exactly what you want to, at the moment you want to do it, and to be happily occupied when you're busy.
• You expect your partner to enhance you in ways that take you beyond who you are, making you feel wiser, more loving, more competent, but never inferior.
• You want your partner to merge with you, but not to suffocate you with enthusiasm or dependence and, certainly, never to bore you.
• You expect your partner to know your needs and communicate them with complete clarity, even if you're being unreasonable.
• You expect your partner to forgive your human limitations, even as you reject his or her imperfections.

If you identify with any of these problems, then you should try to make some adjusments if you want to keep the man/woman you're with because if he does all that for you and gets nothing in return. he may find himself in the arms of the first woman who makes him feel the way he makes you feel.

Sometimes, adultery start with the partner who's crying!