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Adultery Blog - How to Catch A Cheater > Cheating Adultery > Adultery Starts With Flirting "Flirting is much more than just a bit of fun: it is a universal and essential aspect of human interaction. Anthropological research shows that flirting is to be found, in some form, in all cultures and societies around the world.
Flirting is a basic instinct, part of human nature. This is not surprising: if we did not initiate contact and express interest in members of the opposite sex, we would not progress to reproduction, and the human species would become extinct." (SIRC)
If you are into a releationship you have to know how to avoid putting yourself in a situation that would compromise your values.
The following are tips to help you escape flirting:
- You need to learn to recognize when you're feeling seriously tempted by another person.
Remember that you are now doing something that would hurt your partner if he knew about it.
- Be careful with people who are married or attached. Most people in long-term relationships can cope with some admiration, and may even benefit from knowing that others find them or their partners attractive.
Some, however, are less tolerant of flirtatious behavior, and it is important to be alert to signs of discomfort or distress.
- Men have a tendency to mistake friendly behavior for sexual flirting because they tend to see the world in more sexual terms than women.
Women are naturally more socially skilled than men, better at interpreting people's behavior and responding appropriately.
- If someone sends you an ambiguous flirting signal and you are in a relationship, you can still be nice but try to mention something that indirectly tells him you are in a relationship. for example, start a sentence with "I remember my husband used to...". if the flirting continues, then opviously you are dealing with moron!
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