You don't know what the HELL you are talking about!
I am married, been married for 31 years and my husband always thought cheating was wroung, guess what he had an affair.
He hit mid life and freaked out. We are know working things out. I believe marriage is forever, in good times and bad. He has stopped seeing her and I know that was hard too. The OP was the girl he wanted to marry when he was younger, but she dear Johned him im Nam. I know he never really got over that. No one promises us a rose garden, it hurts like hell. Trust is gone. But love isn't.
He's told her it's over and they have stayed friends.
I don't like her nor do I trust her or him. I hoping with time he'll see what he did and realize you can't live your life over again, there is no going back. I made a vow and God said to forgive so I will. Time heals all wounds.
I won't destoy my family or my marriage and let her have him. Sometimes affairs happen because of a hardship and you needed someone to talk with and before you know it the affair has happened.
I know she played him. He is slowly seeing it to. There is hope.Being married to a person that prefers to work than being home, is really no different than having an affair.
Except his mistress is work!
So how is your marriage any better, when he rathor work than be with you. Shouldn't throw stones at glass houses!
