If you are not giving any affection to your wife how can you expect her to sex you up in bed?
Now you go out and cheat on her because she is not giving you any but in reality it is you who don't make her feel special.
Women like to feel special!
The causes of adultery are complex and varied.
Affairs can occur in happy marriages as well as in troubled marriages.
Although the cheating spouse may not be getting enough from the marriage, sometimes the cheating spouse is not giving enough.